Monday, August 11, 2014

Easter

Det är nästan fyra månader sedan vi hade Finlandsbesök, så det är väl dags att lägga upp lite bilder. Mamma och pappa hade med sig äldsta barnbarnen Ellen och Ivar den här gången. Vi var så glada att få se dem alla. De kom några dagar före påsk och stannade i två veckor.

It's almost four months since the Finns visited us so I guess it's time to put up some pictures. Mom and dad brought their oldest grandkids this time, Ellen (11 years) and Ivar (10). Ivar is also our godson, so we were very excited to have them here and we had lots of fun playing with them. They came a few days before Easter and stayed for two weeks.

Besök vid Matildas grav.
We went to see Matilda's grave and brought fresh flowers and candles according to Finnish tradition.



På påskmorgonen hade vi tidig gudstjänst, kl 7, följt av frukost och traditionell "Easter egg hunt". Ellen och Ivar hade roligt och hittade massor med påskägg - tillräckligt för att ta med hem till syskonen.
On Easter morning we had our traditional sunrise service followed by breakfast and Easter egg hunt. This was a new experience for Ellen and Ivar. They had lots of fun and found enough eggs to bring some home for their six siblings (well, five I guess. I don't think the baby got any.) 




Ivar smakar chips gjord av grishud. En riktig delikatess tyckte han. Det gick inte att få Ellen att smaka. Hon vet inte vad hon går miste om.

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Cat in the Hat...and Edith!

Yesterday we went to see a children's play version of The Cat in the Hat. Edith really liked it!


Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Pear Preserves

Our pear tree has lots of fruit this year, so I'm trying to make Nana's pear preserves for the first time. They look right, and hopefully they taste OK too.




Tuesday, July 29, 2014

18 months

Idag skulle vår älskade Matilda vara 1,5 år. Saknaden är lika stor som förr. Vi är tacksamma över att hon inte behöver genomlida många operationer och sjukhusvistelser, men undrar hurdan hon hade varit om hon hade fått leva så här länge. Det är svårt att fatta att det gått 18 månader sedan vi hade henne hos oss. Smärtan är inte lika intensiv längre, men längtan och saknaden efter henne försvinner nog inte i det här livet. Det är så sorgligt att bara ha några kort och en liten videosnutt, som Edith ofta vill se på, kvar av sitt barn. Vi väntar på dagen när vi får se och hålla henne - och Jesse och Jamie - igen.

Our dear Matilda would be 18 months today. While we are thankful that she doesn't have to suffer through many surgeries and hospital stays, we still miss her so much. The pain is less intense these days, but the longing for her will never disappear. It is so sad to only have a few pictures and a short video (which Edith loves watching) of your own child. We wait for the day when we will see and hold her - and Jesse and Jamie - again.


Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Happy Birthday To My Love

Here is to many more birthdays together. Looking forward to growing old with you.


Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Frustration and anger abound...

Original article: http://marcusjonesdirect.com/precious-baby-died-today/

A Precious Baby Died Today

Annie died today. And it should never have been. A little girl, two years old–a precious, little heart of incalculable worth–was lost just a little while ago. And it should never have been.
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Annie was born with Down Syndrome, and some would say with “special needs.” She was a bright and unique light in this world—an epiphany custom-made in Heaven itself—which imbued her with unique and exceptional abilities. Anyone with half a heart could see that.
In spite of all her brilliance, Annie had a extraordinary challenge: the need of a new heart. Hers was failing. A transplant would have saved her life. But a transplant would never come.
Annie died today, a result of being denied a new heart by her doctors due to her genetic diagnosis. The quality of her life was forecast—not by her parents, friends and loved ones, but by a medical litmus that deemed her spark to be inferior to that of people with typical genes. The hospital rejected her appeals for necessary treatment and on the basis of an abhorrent reality: that people born with a particular distinction may not, in fact, always be treated as whole people. And it’s an insidious bigotry that has been bubbling under the surface of our America’s libertarian façade since day one. It is a prejudice that demeans and whacks wonderful people down to a fraction of their whole.
Annie is not the first. America has treated human beings as three-fifths a person before. This time it’s not about skin color. This time a person has been discriminated against based on her genetic constitution. And this intolerance has been going on for years. There are many others besides Annie. Magazine articles and online videos abound, chronicling the systematic discrimination of people born with exceptional abilities. It is a problem that finds its roots in the “Final Solution.”
Men, women and children with Down Syndrome were among the first people exterminated in Hitler’s Nazi Holocaust–all in the name of “mercy.” Atrocities and abominations, carried out in the name of medical science, eviscerated an entire people with the steeliest resolve. “They’re not worth it,” the haters tirade. “They diminish us all!”
But in fact, who’s really the one in need of the heart transplant? Pervasive, long-antiquated prejudices are the knife-blade at the throat of America’s humanity.
Annie_close-upJust look at Annie. You SHOULD be agog. You SHOULD be aghast. An exquisite, irreplaceable, extraordinary person just slipped from our grasp. And we are all diminished.
She died today, not because her heart failed, but because ours did. Our heart: chambers calcified with bigotry and hubris. Our heart: arteries clogged with a self-consumed penchant to play God. Don’t point at her little heart. The blame is squarely on ours.
She died today because in our minds she wasn’t “person” enough to deserve a new pump. She wasn’t whole enough to deserve a new heart—not a child enough to warrant a fighting chance.
There was more than one person who needed a heart transplant today. The lack in the one snuffed out the life of a toddling treasure. The lack in the other will surely choke the nation in time.
A precious little heart of incalculable worth was lost just a little while ago. It should never have been. And anyone with half a heart could see that.